Sunday, September 2, 2007

The Case for Anal Sex

I am of the belief that the benefits of anal sex make it better than vaginal sex for pure pleasure and intimacy.

  1. Anal sex provides better orgasms for both partners. There's little denying the tightness of the anus provides more stimulation for the penis, providing more intense orgasms for the male. Most females I've talked to that say they enjoy anal sex (in other words, they gave it a chance and didn't have a guy who just jammed it in there) say they have more intense orgasms during anal sex then vaginal. There are many women who even prefer anal sex to vaginal for this reason.
  2. Anal sex is more intimate. Let's face it, there really needs trust and intimacy in a relationship for anal sex. My wife and I reached a new level of intimacy when we started having anal sex. It was something that we alone shared, and our "dirty little secret". Unlike vaginal sex which is also practiced for procreation, anal sex is only practiced for the pleasure of the participants. That, in and of itself, builds trust and intimacy. Both partners can concentrate fully on the pleasure (both received and given) during the act of anal sex.
  3. Anal sex is a great form of natural birth control. Yes, I've read the study that states anal sex has an 8% failure rate as a form of birth control. The same study stated condoms had an 11% failure rate. The study took into account those who said their primary form of birth control was anal sex, but then had vaginal sex. Therefore, anal sex would have a much lower failure rate if properly practiced. As well, the study says pregnancy may result from "seepage". Common sense would dictate that you not allow that to happen. As well, semen that is deposited deep in the rectum should be beyond the rectal valves. Unless the woman is on top of the man when he withdraws his penis, the semen should stay in the anus. As well, women must remember to wipe front to back for sanitary reasons, as well as birth control.
  4. Anal sex may provide health benefits for the female recipient. Several studies have suggested the positive health effects of semen on women, such as feeling happier and more content. These studies were, one would assume, based on those having vaginal intercourse. As the rectal lining is thinner then that of the vagina, it is better able to absorb those bodies the produce the positive effects, making anal sex the superior method for delivering these benefits.

As you can see, anal sex is superior to vaginal sex in many ways. My wife and I can attest to the fact our marriage has benefited from anal sex. We recognized these benefits early on, but it wasn't until a little over a year ago we quit having vaginal sex altogether. Although we would not want to impose our beliefs on others, we honestly feel anal sex should be the primary form of sex practiced for the reasons above.

We now have no desire whatsoever to have vaginal sex, unless for procreation. Surely there are others like us? Those who agree with this, even if you have yet to convince your partner? We'd certainly like to hear your comments or questions. I would love to see each of you in a fulfilling relationship that includes regular anal sex. Perhaps more of you may join the anal only club. Comment below or send me an email at luvmywifesass@yahoo.com. I'd love to hear from you.

Friday, March 30, 2007

We've been having anal sex every day this week. Tuesday night she just wanted to do it for fun, and for my pleasure.

We started out with my cock in her ass doggy style. When she's in this type of mood, I can really take my time banging away. I must have fucked her ass for ten minutes in this position, hand on her hips pulling her into my hard thrusts. I love the sound it makes when our bodies slap together, and my balls slap her pussy. The Grand Canyon can't compare to the view of my cock sliding in and out of her shapely ass.

After that, she rolled on her back, placing her legs on my shoulders, and I banged her missionary style for a good ten minutes more. Finally, I lifted her legs up so that she was in the pile-driver position. I just sat there for a couple of seconds, my cock buried all the way to the hilt in her ass. My cock throbbed as I shot my spunk into her colon. Even though we had been having so much sex, it was one of those ball-draining ejaculations. I felt my cum squirting out of my cock and into her ass with at least five powerful squirts.

I thought for sure she would want to go to the bathroom after that, to expel so much spunk. Instead she just asked me to bring in a damp washcloth after I cleaned up. She said she likes the warm feeling deep inside her ass. She said it makes her sleep better. I know I slept better.

Monday, March 26, 2007

Ton of Cum for her Bum

Saturday afternoon my wife and I laid down to take a nap. She laid next to me on her side with her ass toward me. But rather then the typical spooning position, her ass was about up to my chest. She didn't have to say a thing. I knew she wanted me to lick her ass.

I slid down on the bed a bit, so that her ass was right in my face, and began to kiss her butt. She began to gyrate her ass. I spread her cheeks and started to tongue her sweet asshole. After about a minute she rolled onto her stomach. I rolled with her, still lapping her ass. I began fingering her pussy, and she pushed her ass back to meet my tongue. It only took another minute, and her pussy was dripping wet.

I sat up, on my knees behind her. She was already in the doggy position. I began sliding my cock across her wet pussy, then her asshole. Each time my cock brushed her asshole, it opened to receive my cock. She was already arching her back down.

With one pass, I slowly began to enter her ass. She tried to push back onto me, but I held her hips. I was going to make this slow and tantalizing for her. It took several minutes before my cock was all the way in her ass. I could feel her pussy juice actually dripping off my balls that were pressed up against her pussy in this position. I just held my cock there for a moment, relishing the warm tight feeling of my cock buried in my wife's ass. She began to work her sphincter muscles, so that it felt like she was sucking my cock with her ass. I slowly withdrew my cock until only the head remained in her ass. I held it there a second, then began to slowly work my cock in and out of her ass.

"Faster," was all she could say.

With each stroke I began to go faster, until my cock was sliding in an out of her asshole like a well oiled piston.

"Hard," she said, "fuck me hard."

I grabbed her hips and pulled her to me with each hard stroke. I was slamming her ass so that I could hear my balls slap against her wet pussy. Her ass began to tighten around my cock, and I knew she was going to have an orgasm. I knew this wasn't to be the big one, but felt I could go on if I came too. I pulled her back to me as I drove my cock as deep in her ass as I could. Her ass began to pulse around my cock as it throbbed, shooting a huge load of cum deep in her ass. I felt my cock pulse four times, and actually felt the cum shooting out of it.

"I'm not done," she said.

"That's okay, I can keep going," I told her.

She motioned for me to roll on my back. She climbed on top like a rodeo rider ready to bust a bronc. She grabbed her vibrator off of the headboard. She leaned back and inserted it into her pussy, all the while sitting with my cock buried in her ass. She leaned forward again and began to slowly rock back and forth.

In this position, I was able to squeeze and suck her tits. It only took her a couple of minutes, and she leaned back on my cock once again. For my wife, it's all about her ass. Even though she had a vibrator in her pussy, she really loved the feeling of my cock in her ass. Sometimes in this position she can go for an hour. But I wasn't having any problems, my cock was hard as a rock in her ass as she started to bounce up and down on it. After only about a minute, she pushed down on my cock and her asshole pulsated. I couldn't believe she was cumming so quickly. I didn't know if I'd be able to cum soon enough. My fears were relieved when her orgasm went on for about a minute. The feeling of her ass pulsating on my cock and her moans of pleasure sent me over the edge. This time I felt my cock pulse six or seven times as I shot my second big load in her ass. This finished her off, and I felt a little squirt across my stomach as she came.

She collapsed on her side, removing the vibrator. I got up to clean the lube off my cock and pee. When I got back in the room, she was already asleep.

We slept for about an hour and a half. When she got up, she made her way to the bathroom. When I heard her on the toilet I asked if my cum had caused her to have diarrhea.

"Diarrhea?" She said, "No, that's your cum coming out."

Thursday, March 22, 2007

Extended Sitting

My wife and I are Nascar fans. Not fanatics, just fans. We are, however, anal fanatics. So, last Sunday when the Nascar race was getting ready to start, I suggested we watch the race with my wife sitting on my lap.

"That sounds like fun," she said as she started to undress, "Go get the lube."

When I came back into the room, my wife was totally nude. I threw a towel on the floor and took off my clothes. I sat on the floor, my back against the sofa. She leaned forward in front of my in a kind of a doggy style position while I lubricated to her ass and my cock. Then she began to sit up. I guided my cock to her asshole as she slowly lowered herself onto it. In less then a minute she had lowered herself all the way down onto my cock. Then she leaned backward. In this position, she was able to comfortably lean against me. It also had the benefit of offering the deepest penetration.

"This is actually pretty comfortable," she said, as the race started.

It was an incredible feeling, my wife sitting with my cock in her ass while we watched TV as casually as any couple might. We had not had sex in three days, and I had no problem keeping my cock hard as a rock in her ass. I didn't even have to think about it. It was like an involuntary reaction.

Somewhere around lap 34 she was still sitting with my cock firmly ensconced in her tight ass. I reached around and began to rub her clit with one hand and fondle her breast with the other. She leaned her head back on my shoulder and, within a few minutes, began to rock her ass back and forth on my cock.

"Mmmm, you're going to make me cum if you don't stop that," she said.

"And what's wrong with that?" I asked.

A second later she moaned and I felt her ass began to spasm as she bore down on my cock, causing her colon to envelope it. Her orgasm pushed me over the edge. My cock throbbed as I pumped my seed deep in her ass.

She leaned back again, resting against me.

"Oh God, that was good." she said, "I could feel you cum. It felt like you came a lot. I kept feeling it squirt. It feels so warm inside me."

After a couple of minutes she asked me if I wanted to get up.

"No." I said, "After not doing it for three days I can stay hard. You don't mind do you?"

"It doesn't bother me," she said, "I'm comfortable sitting like this."

I could feel the warm juices of her pussy on my balls. At about lap 150, she began to gyrate a little, pushing her asshole in and out. When she does this, it feels like her ass is sucking my cock.
I reached around to play with her clit.

"Don't," she said, "I only want to feel you in my ass."

She moved my had up to her breast. I reached my other hard around and began to fondle both her breasts. She began to gyrate her ass back and forth harder. After a couple of minutes, she was bouncing so hard on my cock that I thought she'd fall off if I didn't have a hold of her tits. Her ass slammed down on my cock. As we were sitting on the floor, there was no give, unlike when we're on the bed. She was slamming my cock mercilessly into her ass. I could feel her dripping wet pussy slapping my balls, coating them with her juices.

As she neared her orgasm, she bore down. I felt my cock leave the cavern of her rectum and enter her tight colon. Feeling my cock entering her colon, she stopped bouncing and began to gyrate and push down harder, as if to try and get every last millimeter of my cock in her ass.

"I'm cumming. I'm cumming. I'm cumming." she cried.

I felt her hot cum running over my balls, as she squirted from her pussy. Just then I shot my second load of cum deep into her colon, seeding her ass. It felt like I came even more this time then the first. The only feeling better then pumping cum deep in your wife's ass is knowing that's what she wants.

We both collapsed against the couch, my cock softening in her ass. I could feel her juices running off my balls and down the crack of my ass.

We lay like that for almost the entire rest of the race. My cock never did soften enough to come out of her ass on it's own. After the race, we took a nap, my seed still inside her.

When we woke, we had sex again. All told, I came four times in her ass by the end of the day. It's an incredible feeling drifting off to sleep knowing the woman laying next to you sleeps well because your seed is deep inside her ass.

Tuesday, February 27, 2007

It's been somewhat of a dry spell for the last week (for us anyway). This morning we found out why, she started her period. She has irregular periods, so you never know when one is coming, unless she's particularly moody.

Anyway, now that the PMS had subsided, she was ready for action again. Yes, that's another benefit of anal only sex, her period really doesn't effect us much.

I lubed her sweet ass and got in the missionary position. Five minutes later, I she had her legs almost behind her neck and I was plowing her ass full-force. She was really starting to get into it, but hadn't cum yet. I had blown a load in her ass already, quite a lot actually, and was ready for more. (Yes, I know it's a little strange, but it's not uncommon for me to have multiple orgasms in my wifes ass, sometimes as many as four, without needing a break. Some guys have all the luck.) Anyway, the phone rang. As I was banging the hell out of her ass, we weren't answering it. The answering machine picked up and we heard that a friend of ours was in a pretty serious car crash. That put the brakes on. She picked up the phone, as I pulled out of her ass.

We went to the emergency room to pick our friend up. He was pretty sore, but seemed as if he'd be okay. By the time we got home, it was late. I guess the last anal session will have continue tomorrow.

Saturday, February 24, 2007

My Wife Almost Always Gets Horny

My wife almost always gets horny when we have sex. If she's not in the mood, she's usually happy to accommodate me. But more often then not she gets into it. We were laying in bed the other day. I was spooning her, so it was impossible to hide what I was thinking about. "You can do my butt, if you want," she said. That seemed like a less then enthusiastic invite, but I reached for the lube on the headboard and applied a generous amount to her backdoor. I placed the head of my cock against her asshole and she slowly began to loosen up as I pushed into her. Once I was balls deep, I sat there for a second, letting her adjust. Slowly I began to withdraw my cock and work it back in. This went on for several minutes before she said, "Wait. I want to get on top."Most of the time my wife likes to sit on my dick facing me. This time, she turned around, reverse anal cowgirl style. When I reached around to play with her clit, she was dripping wet. She grabbed her dildo off the headboard and worked it back and forth across her clit, not yet putting it in. I reached around and fondled her breasts while watching her ass slide up and down on my cock. She sat all the way down on my cock, then inserted her dildo. I could feel it sliding into her wet cunt through the thin membrane separating her tight asshole. Once fully inserted, she just sat still for a moment. I knew she was experiencing a small orgasm. I could feel her sphincter tighten around my cock, signaling the end of her orgasm. My cock was hard as a rock buried up her butt. She then began to work her ass back and forth on my cock. Not so much an up and down (in and out), but back and forth with my dick buried all the way up her backside. I could feel her working her dildo in and out of her cunt. I moved one hand from her breast to her clit and began rubbing it. She became more wet and began bouncing up and down on my cock full force. I felt her ass begin to tighten and knew she was about to have a huge orgasm. She pushed her ass as far down on my cock as possible. I couldn't hold out any longer. I came deep up her butt as she had her own orgasm. She removed her dildo from her pussy and rolled to the left. I rolled with her, my cock still in her ass. We lay like that for several minutes, my cock softening. I kissed her shoulder and told her I couldn't believe I was so lucky to have a wife who loved anal sex. She said he was the lucky one. I've got it so good!

Monday, February 19, 2007

Anal Only? There is some fine print...

We're working on some home improvement projects. After a full day of work and several hours of that, we were beat. When we got in bed she began fondling my cock. Then she went under the covers and gave me a blow-job. Although I was beat, she brought out the best in me. She gives incredible head. She only recently became interested in learning how to deep-throat, and after only a couple of sessions, she mastered it. I came in just a couple of minutes, and she swallowed. It worked out well, as neither of us had to get out of bed to clean-up.

I know this is an "anal only" blog, but I mean that only to the exclusion of vaginal sex. The wife wants to try and get pregnant toward the end of the year, which means we'll have to take her butt-plug out of retirement and the anal streak will end; for a while anyway. Until then, I think it's safe to say we'll continue to have "anal only" sex.

She keeps saying, "I really wish we could get pregnant with you fucking my ass." And, I do too...

Friday, February 16, 2007

Horny Wife

My wife is a anal nympho! It's pretty common for us to have anal sex five times a week. We usually supplement that with some oral sex in which I use my fingers in her ass. However, this week she only wants my cock where is belongs; in her hot tight ass. We've had anal sex ten times in the last seven days. Last Friday, we had anal sex once. Saturday we had anal three times. Sunday we had anal twice. Since, we've had anal every day. I hope to keep the blog updated with more details in the near future.

How We Started Our Anal Adventure

I had been interested in anal sex for a long time, but my wife and I never really talked about it. I slipped once (really) and my wife screamed in pain. It seemed obvious she wasn't interested in anal sex.

We had been married about a year when I found a video in a parking lot. The video didn't have a label on it. I decided to take it home and see what was on it. I mentioned to my wife I had found the video, as I put it in the VCR (yes, this was a number of years ago). On popped a porn video with a lady getting gang-banged by about eight guys. I apologized to my wife and quickly shut the video off. My wife, who is generally quiet reserved said, "Don't throw it away." This video wasn't like any of the soft-core stuff we ever watched (the free videos you get when you order from Adam & Eve).

Later that evening, we were getting into bed and my wife asked me to put the video in. She got into some lingerie while I turned on the TV and put the tape in the VCR. I think the movie was called "Between the Cheeks". The woman in the video was getting gang-banged and taking it in every hole. I don't know how much of the video we watched before we fucked our brains out, the way you do when you're doing something naughty.

A few days later, my wife suggested I put the video in again. I did, and we watched a scene in which a woman was analled by something like four guys. My wife watched intently and became very horny. We started to have sex in the doggy-style position. As I was slowly working it in and out of her, I pulled my cock out of her pussy and rubbed it over her asshole. She moaned slightly and actually angled her butt back. I continued to alternate between fucking her pussy and rubbing my cock against her asshole. My wife rolled me over, got on top, and fucked my brains out. We both had incredible orgasms.

The next night my wife wanted me to put the video in again. I did and we watched another hot scene where a woman was getting fucked up the ass. Once again, my wife was wet as hell and we began to fuck. She wanted to do doggy-style again, which was somewhat unusual for her. Once again I began removing my cock from her pussy and sliding it across her asshole. My wife began moaning and lowered her ass. I placed my cock against her asshole, and we both just sat there for a second. Then she began to push backward. It seemed like it took forever just to get my head in her ass. It went in with a pop. My wife came like she had never cum before, which caused me to do the same, right up her ass! We both collapsed, and lay there together, shaking. I couldn't believe I had just cum in my wife's hot ass.

For the next two weeks or so, we had anal sex every day. Each day she was able to work my cock deeper into her ass. It took about a two weeks until I was able to fully bury my cock in her ass, my balls against her cunt. We both had another mind shattering orgasm. We fell to our sides, my cock still in her ass. We lay like that for about ten minutes. Even though I had just blown my load in my wife's butt, my cock remained rock hard. My wife began working her asshole, pushing out, then pulling in. It was like she was sucking my cock with her ass. After a couple minutes of this, I told her I was about to cum. We both came again. I couldn't believe I had cum in my wife's ass twice in less than 30 minutes. We continued to lay like that, my cock still rock hard. It was like I was 17 again. After about ten minutes, my wife said she wanted to try the missionary position and see if I could fuck her ass as hard as she likes me to fuck her pussy. I took my cock out of her ass for the first time in nearly 45 minutes. She lay on her back, putting her legs over my shoulders and I slowly inserted my cock back into her ass. She now easily took my cock, her asshole having been stretched. My wife was hornier than I had ever seen her before. She asked... No demanded I fuck her ass hard. I was still rock hard and slammed my cock into her ass for a good ten minutes. She must have come five times (before this she rarely had multiple orgasms). Then she had a huge orgasm, and I let go too. My wife passed out. I couldn't believe I had cum up my wife's ass for the third time in about an hour, and gave my wife an orgasm that made her pass out.

We were hooked. My wife said she had never had orgasms like she did when we had anal sex, and I could not believe the smooth, tight feeling. I think we both enjoyed the naughtiness of it. For the next three months we must have had anal sex just about every day... at my wife's insistence. During this time she must have had at least ten orgasms that caused her to pass out.

Several months later, I went to the adult bookstore and picked up a dildo for her pussy and some better lube (we had been using KY Jelly). The first time we used them, she sat on top of me. My cock was in her ass, as she inserted the dildo into her cunt. It made her ass feel even tighter. She literally slammed her ass down on my cock as I squeezed her incredible tits. We both came in minutes. She passed out, falling backward. When she did, she squirt all over. My wife had never had a squirting orgasm before, and it was incredibly kinky.

My wife and I have been having anal sex for about 16 years now and our sex life is hotter than ever. We have anal sex about five times a week (her period isn't even a concern when you're using the back door). It's our dirty little secret. We like to wonder who else we know might be having anal sex as well. Aside from her dildo, we have not had vaginal sex in about six months.

Sometimes we enjoy inserting anal balls, called Vibro Balls, into her ass. She then sits on my cock, places her dildo in her cunt, and rocks back and forth until we both cum. Anal sex was the beginning of a new sex life for us. We've tried some other things, but anal has remained our favorite. Some of the other kink makes for good foreplay, but that's for another story...