Monday, December 28, 2015

Vaginal Abandonment

As we started our tenth year of anal only, I wanted to try and put a little effort into the BLOG and update everyone as to what has been going on with the wife and I.  Don't fear, we haven't decided to practice vaginal sex or something.  Actually, we've gone quite the other direction; we're calling it vaginal abandonment. 

About a year ago, my wife decided she no longer wanted any type of vaginal penetration whatsoever. For most of the time we've been having anal sex, she would often use a rabbit vibrator in her vagina while we had anal sex.  It went something like this:  If she wanted to get off quickly (we had someplace to be, we were both really tired, etc.) she would use the rabbit vibe during anal.  If she wanted to have a longer, more intense orgasm, she would have no vaginal/clitoral stimulation whatsoever.  The ratio was probably about 50/50.  Over time, it leaned a little more heavily toward no vaginal/clitoral stimulation (probably about 70/30).  One night she said she liked being able to get off quickly sometimes, but that she really didn't like the feeling of anything in her vagina.  We tried several small "clitoral vibrators," but it was difficult for either of use to hold it while having sex.  The clitoral stimulator of the rabbit vibrator was held against her clit by the portion in her vagina.  With a small clit vibrator, someone had to hold it.  So, I went online to see if there was a solution.  That's when I found a "butterfly" clitoral stimulator, like the one below. 


This provides her the clitoral stimulation she needs when she wants to get off quickly, without the distraction or discomfort of anything in her vagina.

After using this about 50% of the time for a month or so, she threw her rabbit vibrator in the trash.  She found her orgasms were more intense, much more like an anal only orgasm.  Now, she uses the Butterfly about 60% of the time with anal penetration. 

The real upside to this?  Our frequency of sex had gone down to about three or four times a week.  Since the introduction of the Butterfly, it's at least four or five times a week.  Many weeks, it's six or seven.

I've never been one of those who believes anal only means no vaginal or clitoral stimulation, just that sex does not include penile penetration of the vagina.  However, I can't help but admit a certain part of me is, not only glad my wife never wants anything in her vagina again, but somewhat turned on by the thought of "vaginal abandonment."  And our sex life is all the better for it. 

Thursday, December 17, 2015

Finally - Ass to Mouth

I can't believe it, but a couple of weeks ago while I was fucking my wife, I said I would give her $100.00 for shopping if she sucked my dick right then. I'd jokingly asked her in the past (and offered her more, mind you). This time she just said, "If you really want to do that, you don't have to give me anything."

We were on the side of the bed, with me standing, and her in the missionary position, while I held her legs with her knees at her chest, for deeper penetration. Just like that it happened. I removed my cock from her ass and she turned sideways on the bed to suck my cock. I fully expected her to inspect it first or give it a sniff. No, she just went down on it and sucked it with enthusiasm. She was surprised when I pulled my cock out of her mouth. She asked what was wrong. I told her nothing, but that I wanted to do it again. We went back and fourth five times before I came in her mouth.

The next day I asked her if she would ever consider doing it again. She said she really didn't mind it, and that she would be willing to do it once a week. We actually did it a couple of times a week for the next two weeks, and once the third week.

I never would have thought it would be something she would want to do for her. Then, the other night, she was really turned on. She was in the missionary position, and I was fucking her ass (of course), and she actually told me she wanted to suck my cock. I pulled my cock out of her ass and she immediately spun around and began sucking my cock in a way that almost made me blow my load. When she turned back around, her pussy lips were unusually engorged, and she was dripping wet. Her asshole literally pulsed, as if it were trying to suck something that wasn't there. When I stuck my cock back in her ass, she groaned and pulled me deeper into her as we both came. It was the best orgasm either one of us have had in a while.

I would never have thought my wife would let me do ass to mouth, let alone be turned on by it so much that she would want to do it to get herself off. I think it's safe to say ass to mouth will be a regular part of fucking from here on out.  

I already felt I was the luckiest man alive. I am constantly amazed I have a wife that only wants to have anal sex, and frequently at that. Now, she actually wants to do ass to mouth as part of it. Now I know I'm the luckiest man alive.

Sunday, December 13, 2015

Changing People's Mindset

From a comment I recently received:

"I admit I've never tried anal but I'm curious enough to give it a try one day when I meet the right woman. Now, what I want to know is why you'd use anal as a substitute all the time? Wouldn't that get boring? I don't see the big attraction?"

I've never understood comments like this.  The anus is tighter, smoother, and has the ability to move in ways the vagina can't come close to, giving it the ability to stimulate a man's cock far better than the vagina.  It's a natural form of birth control that, when practiced correctly, is virtually 100% effective.

Anal sex has all of this, and more, over the vagina, as I've documented in other posts.  Still, you never hear anyone say, "Vaginal?  Wouldn't that get boring all the time?" 

Why is this, you ask?  Social conditioning.  When you've been conditioned your entire life to think something is normal, and something else is not, it's hard to see past what you have come to accept is fact.  People don't even realize it.

What's the big attraction?  Anal sex is better than vaginal sex for the purpose of pleasurable sexual activity.  Vaginal?  It's the hands down winner when it comes to procreation...  Other than that, "I don't see the big attraction."