Vaginal Abandonment

As we started our tenth year of anal only, I wanted to try and put a little effort into the BLOG and update everyone as to what has been going on with the wife and I.  Don't fear, we haven't decided to practice vaginal sex or something.  Actually, we've gone quite the other direction; we're calling it vaginal abandonment. 

About a year ago, my wife decided she no longer wanted any type of vaginal penetration whatsoever. For most of the time we've been having anal sex, she would often use a rabbit vibrator in her vagina while we had anal sex.  It went something like this:  If she wanted to get off quickly (we had someplace to be, we were both really tired, etc.) she would use the rabbit vibe during anal.  If she wanted to have a longer, more intense orgasm, she would have no vaginal/clitoral stimulation whatsoever.  The ratio was probably about 50/50.  Over time, it leaned a little more heavily toward no vaginal/clitoral stimulation (probably about 70/30).  One night she said she liked being able to get off quickly sometimes, but that she really didn't like the feeling of anything in her vagina.  We tried several small "clitoral vibrators," but it was difficult for either of use to hold it while having sex.  The clitoral stimulator of the rabbit vibrator was held against her clit by the portion in her vagina.  With a small clit vibrator, someone had to hold it.  So, I went online to see if there was a solution.  That's when I found a "butterfly" clitoral stimulator, like the one below. 

This provides her the clitoral stimulation she needs when she wants to get off quickly, without the distraction or discomfort of anything in her vagina.

After using this about 50% of the time for a month or so, she threw her rabbit vibrator in the trash.  She found her orgasms were more intense, much more like an anal only orgasm.  Now, she uses the Butterfly about 60% of the time with anal penetration. 

The real upside to this?  Our frequency of sex had gone down to about three or four times a week.  Since the introduction of the Butterfly, it's at least four or five times a week.  Many weeks, it's six or seven.

I've never been one of those who believes anal only means no vaginal or clitoral stimulation, just that sex does not include penile penetration of the vagina.  However, I can't help but admit a certain part of me is, not only glad my wife never wants anything in her vagina again, but somewhat turned on by the thought of "vaginal abandonment."  And our sex life is all the better for it.