Thursday, April 17, 2008

Anal Sex Q & A

I sometimes receive e-mail regarding anal sex. I try to answer each and every e-mail I receive. I thought I would post a few of the questions I've received, and my answers. Please, send me your anal sex related questions, and I'll try to answer them here.

Q. Anal sex isn't natural, is it?

A. What defines natural, pro-creation? By that standard only vaginal sex would be considered "natural." How many who make this statement in reference to anal sex, have oral sex? In my opinion, what is natural is that which can be done without harm. For example, smoking cigarettes might be considered not "natural." Anal sex meets this criteria for naturalness.

Q. The rectum wasn't designed for anal sex, was it?

A. I would like to address some of the more common myths surrounding anal sex. The anus opens and closes many thousands of times during a person's lifetime. This is it's function. My next statement is not meant to be crude, I'm just illustrating a point. Taking into account the average sized bowel movement is approximately the same size as the average sized penis, why wouldn't the rectum accommodate a penis? Some say, the rectum is only for waste removal; some sort of one-way valve. However, there is nothing about it's design that supports that theory. The Sphincter muscles can be controlled to allow the insertion of an object, just as they are controlled to allow the removal of one.

Q. I've read that the lining of the vagina is tough and stretches, while the lining of the rectum is fragile and tears easily, is this true?

A. The wall of the of the vagina is tough. It was designed to stretch to allow the passage of a baby. The rectum, on the other hand, only needs to stretch to accommodate something the size of a bowel movement, or a penis. As to the fragility of the rectal wall and whether it tears easily or not, all you have to do is eat a lot of peanuts to realize the lining can't be that fragile, as it feels like a razor blades when you have a bowel movement. Now, I'm not going to say the rectal lining isn't going to tear if you cram a baseball bat in there and work it vigorously. However, after 16 years of (often vigorous) anal sex with my wife, she has never experienced bleeding, tearing, or discomfort as a result of anal sex; and my penis is larger than average. Certainly, millions of people have anal sex every day without harm.

Q. Will anal sex cause the anus stretch and cause incontinence?

A. Once again, the anus was designed to open and close hundreds of thousands of times over a lifetime. I have never seen a documented case of penile/anal sex causing incontinence. Certainly, if you are going to shove that ol' baseball bat in there, you might expect to have some problems. Although I have seen post by doctors who say it may cause these problems, I have seen many more that say it will not. As well, I have never seen a post by a specialist, say a proctologist, who says penile/anal penetration will cause this type of damage. The simple fact of the matter is, the anus was designed to accommodate something the size of a penis.

Q. I heard anal sex causes rectal/colon cancer?

A. This is a possibility if the male is infected with the Human papilloma Virus (HPV). If so, you would also be at risk of receiving cervical cancer from having vaginal sex with that partner. Many doctors now recommend all girls 14 and over get immunized against HPV. HPV is a sexually transmitted disease, but not in the traditional sense, and may not show up in some STD screenings.

Q. Is it safe to cum in her ass?

A. Barring STDs, there is no danger in unloading in her ass. I've cum in my wife's ass thousands of times.

Q. Isn't anal sex is prohibited by God/the Bible/the Koran/Etc?

A. I'm not a theologian, go ask your pastor, rabbi, priest, etc. I'm only addressing the physical/psychological aspects of anal sex.

Q. If I want to have anal sex with my wife/girlfriend, does that mean I'm gay or bi-sexual?

A. Simply put, no. You are only gay or bi-sexual if you want to have sex with another man.

Q. What if I enjoy it when my wife/girlfriend stimulates me anally, am I gay or bi-sexual?

A. Although this isn't my thing, the same answer holds true: You are only gay or bi-sexual if you want to have sex with another man.

Sunday, January 20, 2008

Anal only videos?

I am looking for recommendations of adult videos that feature only anal and oral sex. It's just a waste to spend time fast forwarding through vaginal sex for the main attraction.

The only series I have found that caters to this taste is Grand Theft Anal, by Zero Tolerance. I highly recommend it if, like me, you would rather see a woman pleasing a man with her ass, rather than a sloppy old pussy. The starlets in these films are pretty good looking too. Be warned though, this isn't a "couples" flick, as it tends a little to the hard-core side for most women.

Anyway, please post any recommendation below. I'm sure there are plenty of others that would like to find videos of this type.