This is a comment I received a while back in response to the "Exit Only" post. I thought the question interesting enough that I wanted to post it, and my response on the main page.
AnonymousJune 23, 2014 at 4:06 AM
I've found this blog, and this page in particular very interesting. Do you consider that there could be some element of design or purpose to the fit of the anus to the penis or is this just a fortunate accident? Whatever, it's reassuring to think that I'm not entirely alone in thinking along these lines. The doesn't appear to be a persuasive logical alternative, when you consider the many gynecological disorders experienced by women and the fact that the vagina actually only need to be used a very limited amount of times in order to fulfill its function. And on the other hand you have all these couples who attest that anal provides the greater pleasure for them. Why all the desire and interest if it is not a natural function? I'd love for you to explore this in another post and see if others share this view as I feel you only hinted at the possibility here.
- I think the function of the anus and rectum, that of retaining feces until such a time as it is to be expelled, are what make it better suited for frequent pleasurable sexual activity. The thicker, stronger muscle band around the anus cause it to be tighter, providing more stimulation, and to remain tight. Whereas the weaker, thinner muscle band of the vagina loses elasticity quickly, especially if a woman gives birth. Of course this is a common complaint of couples who practice vaginal sex.
The rectal valves, and their ability to move closer to the anus allow them to be pushed down onto the man's cock. When done correctly, it feels similar to the most exquisite oral sex. In my experience with my wife, I think this is involuntary and happens just before and during orgasm. This stimulation is something the vagina cannot compare to and causes the man to experience more complete ejaculation.
Speaking of more complete ejaculation, as I mentioned in the post, the rectum, being open ended also allows more complete ejaculation, as it allows the free flow of ejaculate beyond the rectal valves and into the woman's colon. The rectal valves then close as the man withdraws his cock, retaining his cum within her colon, where the beneficial compounds are best able be absorbed. Anal sex is far superior to the vagina in this regard, as the ejaculate is better retained and the colon provides for better absorption than the vagina.
So, I don't know if the anus evolved (or was designed by a creator) for the purpose of more pleasurable sex that also enhances bonding more than that of vaginal sex. All I know is it unquestionably does.
Anal sex is God's gift to mankind!
ReplyDeleteAlso have you noticed that the average turd is about the same size and shape as a penis. There are no coincidences in nature, everything has a purpose.
Johny,
DeleteLet me first say I'm a fan of yours on Xhamster.
I have often pointed out, to those who say the penis will cause damage to the rectum, that the average size penis and average size bowel movement are about the same size.
It's like those people who say the vagina is better for sex because the lining is thicker and stronger. Well, hell yes it is thicker and stronger, it has to be to fulfill it's purpose, to deliver a baby. That doesn't necessarily equate to it being better for sex. The rectum's only needs to stretch enough to expel feces and accommodate a man's penis, which it can do with ease. Not only can it stretch to accommodate even the thickest penis, the open ended structure of the rectum can better accommodate a longer one as well. And, unlike the vagina, where the man's penis is often jammed up against the back of the vaginal wall, the open ended rectum allows ejaculate to flow freely from the penis, providing more complete ejaculation and a more satisfying orgasm.
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DeleteHi there. I'm not sure if this blog is active anymore, nor if I'm posting in the correct place.
ReplyDeleteSo here goes. I've recently discovered your blog after searching about this subject and you seem to be one of the most experienced and authoritative on it.
My wife and I have been married just over 10 years now and mostly I couldn't be happier. We have a lot of anal sex (I'd say about 50/50 with vaginal), so that averages out about twice a week, but it all varies of course. Now I've always had a strong preference for anal and I believe my wife loves it too. She never complains of any pain, can take it long and slow, or a good pounding. And she has great orgasms with it. You would have thought things were perfect yes? But the problem is that I've got to the point where I'm tired of vaginal sex, it doesn't interest me that much and to be honest it just isn't stimulating in the same way as anal.
We have two children (which has had some affect on her vagina) and I would like to move on to the next phase and simply leave out vaginal sex altogether. My wife is in all other ways in great shape, has what I think is a fantastic body and I love nothing better than when she's down on all fours with me up her ass. She's usually quite submissive when it comes to sex and from what I can see she really lights up when we do anal. But what puzzles me is that when I've hinted or suggested we only have anal from now on she'll say something like its normal for a man and wife to have vaginal sex. I'm not sure she even believes that herself, but it's what she says. Even more curious is how all our foreplay centers around her asshole, with me fingering or licking it as she rarely wants me to actually touch her pussy.
So that's my situation. What's your take on it? Ever heard of husband/wife where we're at and how did it work out?
Hey luvmywifesass,
ReplyDeleteI love the concept of anal only. I saw the forum and I plan on registering there, however, I stopped by to say thank you first.
I remember when I saw my first hardcore porn movie. The guy was fucking a woman in her pussy, and I got turned on. However, he proceeded to have anal with her. I was amazed. I thought: "People do that? Wow. This looks way more beautiful than pussy sex!"
Since then, anal has become my ultimate fantasy. I've practiced masturbation penetrating my ass instead of my vagina. Unfortunately, my first boyfriend didn't want anal sex. So I am still an anal virgin, even though I've secretly hoped of being a vaginal virgin forever, because that sounds hot. However, my orgasms are far stronger with a few fingers up my ass. I love playing with my sphincter and moving my fingers around.
When I stopped to read your blog a few years ago (the forum did not yet exist), I realized that having anal intercourse only is completely possible, natural, pain free and an ideal contraception method. Thank you for sharing your lifestyle with the world.
I'm in my early twenties and I really hope I will find someone to have anal sex with, and preferably anal only.
With kind regards,
a Croatian gal